Your best bet
- June 10th, 2011“Imitation is Suicide. Insist on yourself; never imitate.” – Emerson
Be you at any cost.
It’s a mantra I hold pretty close. I pretend it’s a voice from above or within reminding me that my best hope at flourishing is to embrace the lot that is me.
But what do I do on days when I don’t like me very much?
If I’m smart, I lean in to the parts I don’t like.
Wait! But what if I’m in the midst of external criticism while others are producing stuff that blows me away – or worse… I think their stuff is lame and everyone else is celebrating it – what then? What if this is all happening and deep down, I’m just tired and disappointed with what is showing up in my life?
If I’m committed to being a creative, I go again.
Better yet, I double down on me. Any alternative is a sucker bet. In fact, I’m not even sure there’s an alternative. It may be the most sure wager I know. Of course if there’s truth here, I suspect I’m not the only game in town. It might be time to reclaim your chips too and put ‘em back to work on you.






June 10th, 2011 at 8:17 am
Thank you for this awesome post today Dane! You are so good at helping me remember to stay positive, avoid comparing myself to others, and keep working on improving. This was a perfect reminder this morning!
June 10th, 2011 at 8:34 am
That’s my greatest challenge… Letting fear stand in the way of me. Especially in my photography.
I’ve been shooting for 25 years and I see people more creative than me and think, I’m rubbish. Thanks for the kick in the seat.
I appreciate your candor.
June 10th, 2011 at 9:36 am
Thanks Dane! Have a killer weekend…
June 12th, 2011 at 8:15 pm
Strange… I was thinking about this all day. The more I’ve let go of what others are doing, the clearer and stronger I’m becoming, and the fewer the days I spend pining over others works. Tx for the post!
September 9th, 2011 at 10:07 am
Wow — JUST what I needed to read! Thank you for this post Dane!
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